Avi Love

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The core of my philosophy is learning to love ourselves and others fully exactly as we are in this moment without believing that anything needs to be fixed, changed, managed, controlled, or matched to a vision of how we thought things would or should be.When we meet the moment from this place, we're empowered to welcome and embrace any identity shifts, relationship transformations, and embody our most authentic wants and needs. We and our loved ones become the most wondrous and fully realized versions of ourselves, and our relationships deepen into containers that truly have space for all of us.As a nonbinary queer trans woman myself, I understand how unique and personal these journeys are. I've explored the full range of relationship styles and learned to deeply trust myself and my connections. I've worked through attachment traumas, messy learned family behaviors, and reached a place of deep inner safety and joy.I ran San Francisco's most attended kink and sexuality space for 3 years with a core team of experts in sexuality, I've facilitated hundreds of events where I've held thousands of individuals in wide ranging stages of exploration, and I've developed and taught advanced workshops on gender identity, sexuality, kink, and relationship styles.If you're seeking support in loving yourself exactly as you are, I would be honored to hold you in that journey.

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Creativity and play are at the center of everything we do as humans. Our nervous systems learn safety through play. Our best and brightest ideas come from following our own sense of creative aliveness. Our capacity to tap into our own creative wellspring and to play with what arises is how we build our most nourishing life and beautiful artistry.Whether you're a physicist or filmmaker, engineer or actor, the boundaries of your work are defined by how playfully alive you feel while doing it. Too often the stories we've been taught of how we ought to show up, what our next milestone should be, and what the constraints are get in the way of our unique creative spark. Our biggest indicator that we've taken on a story that isn't truly ours is when our creative light is dimmed and we no longer feel as able to access the play in all areas of life.Some of my own cherished lessons in creativity and play have included:
-Discovering the heartfelt details that live in a fraction of a second with Pixar and Disney animators
-Seeing and building upon the opportunities of each moment through improvisation at Groundlings and Upright Citizens Brigade
-Transforming the messiness of life into empowered and cathartic stories with the creators of hit TV shows and bestselling books
-Dissecting what makes an experience feel like play with game designers
-Highlighting what can be savored in the most mundane ingredient with fine dining chefs
-Hearing the emotional soundtrack of life through one of the last remaining silent film organistsIf you're looking to rediscover or deepen the creativity and play in your life or work, I'm here to "yes and" your inner child into a life that brings out your brightest self.

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